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11/01/2007 01:51:21 PM · #1 |
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11/01/2007 01:57:48 PM · #2 |
Edit: On second thought, this thread was pointless with a pic!
Message edited by author 2007-11-02 14:11:28.
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11/01/2007 03:42:46 PM · #3 |
I agree totally...PICS PICS PICS. LOL |
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11/01/2007 05:24:39 PM · #4 |
sounds like the average guy to me, atleast he wasnt takeing photos of another guys... |
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11/01/2007 05:32:05 PM · #5 |
I must say, the responses from the men in this thread are absolutely revolting. |
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11/01/2007 05:32:37 PM · #6 |
Originally posted by Jimbo_for_life: sounds like the average guy to me, atleast he wasnt takeing photos of another guys... |
I wish you were kidding when you say this. I'm sure now you'll say you were just kidding, but I will never believe you.
Your comment is so demented and misogynistic, it makes me weep for humanity.
ETA: I agree with Laurie. I'm ashamed of all of you.
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 17:37:48. |
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11/01/2007 05:42:14 PM · #7 |
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What did I originally say here? Hmmmmmmm
Message edited by author 2007-11-02 13:32:40.
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11/01/2007 05:42:28 PM · #8 |
Originally posted by frisca: Originally posted by Jimbo_for_life: sounds like the average guy to me, atleast he wasnt takeing photos of another guys... |
Your comment is so demented and misogynistic, it makes me weep for humanity.
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To say nothing of homophobic.
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11/01/2007 05:42:33 PM · #9 |
Originally posted by frisca: Originally posted by Jimbo_for_life: sounds like the average guy to me, atleast he wasnt takeing photos of another guys... |
I wish you were kidding when you say this. I'm sure now you'll say you were just kidding, but I will never believe you.
Your comment is so demented and misogynistic, it makes me weep for humanity.
ETA: I agree with Laurie. I'm ashamed of all of you. |
LOL i think its boys being boys...Women ogle guys too they are just better at hiding it, but they do the same things as men and then act like guys are the only perverted ones
I better edit to add i dont condone crotch shots being taken without consent
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 17:43:07. |
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11/01/2007 05:47:20 PM · #10 |
Jason, without dragging either of us into a debate on the issue "boys being boys" may be acceptable for the posts that ask for the photo, but to say that men do these sorts of things and its ok because women do it too is wrong for many reasons.
1. Its not right to objectify a person
2. Its not right to perpetuate that objectification by cheering for the photos
3. I personally know of no women who would cheer and ask for photos if another woman said she had a photo of some guy's package.
Women may admire and even ogle a man, just as a man may do that to a woman. That is not the same thing as encouraging such photos be taken and distributed and then dismissing that behaviour as normal. |
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11/01/2007 05:47:21 PM · #11 |
Originally posted by L2: I must say, the responses from the men in this thread are absolutely revolting. |
I'm revolting too, but I'm glad you stood up and said that. |
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11/01/2007 06:03:56 PM · #12 |
I'm revolving too! Too many beers, I guess and I can't stand up :) |
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11/01/2007 06:07:59 PM · #13 |
Originally posted by frisca: Jason, without dragging either of us into a debate on the issue "boys being boys" may be acceptable for the posts that ask for the photo, but to say that men do these sorts of things and its ok because women do it too is wrong for many reasons.
1. Its not right to objectify a person
2. Its not right to perpetuate that objectification by cheering for the photos
3. I personally know of no women who would cheer and ask for photos if another woman said she had a photo of some guy's package.
Women may admire and even ogle a man, just as a man may do that to a woman. That is not the same thing as encouraging such photos be taken and distributed and then dismissing that behaviour as normal. |
All i am trying to say is I am sure it was said tongue in cheek...Many people make jokes about a situation, even when it seems inappropriate, just the way some people deal with stuff. Me personally? I could have my car totally wrecked by someone and I would be making jokes about it an hour later as long as no one was hurt, just the way i deal with stuff
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 18:08:25. |
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11/01/2007 06:08:34 PM · #14 |
Originally posted by frisca: Jason, without dragging either of us into a debate on the issue "boys being boys" may be acceptable for the posts that ask for the photo, but to say that men do these sorts of things and its ok because women do it too is wrong for many reasons.
1. Its not right to objectify a person
2. Its not right to perpetuate that objectification by cheering for the photos
3. I personally know of no women who would cheer and ask for photos if another woman said she had a photo of some guy's package.
Women may admire and even ogle a man, just as a man may do that to a woman. That is not the same thing as encouraging such photos be taken and distributed and then dismissing that behaviour as normal. |
There is a distinct line between appreciation/admiration and depraved leering.
Personally, I am constantly embarrassed at my gender's archaic sense of morality after all these years of supposed progress.
Most women enjoy being appreciated, and after an initial visceral reaction on a visual level, they are often quite delighted to be assumed to be an enjoyable and intelligent human being.
Oddly enough, with that general attitude, I have women as friends......go figure!
Oh, and frisca, I do know a couple of women like #3.....funny, I consider them to be pigs! LOL!!!
Oh and one last thing......the most effectively stimulated erogenous zone on a woman is between her......EARS!!!!!
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 18:09:01.
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11/01/2007 06:12:44 PM · #15 |
Originally posted by NikonJeb: Oh and one last thing......the most effectively stimulated erogenous zone on a woman is between her......EARS!!!!! |
Brings new meaning to "Head Shots" huh?
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11/01/2007 06:15:29 PM · #16 |
Originally posted by rex: Originally posted by NikonJeb: Oh and one last thing......the most effectively stimulated erogenous zone on a woman is between her......EARS!!!!! |
Brings new meaning to "Head Shots" huh? |
LMAO!
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 21:15:15.
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11/01/2007 06:22:17 PM · #17 |
well it is disgusting that this guy is doing it, expecally because it is for some personal fantisy to it. i didnt mean for it to sound as it did, i ment it to mean at least he likes the opposite gender and wasnt some, well gay actavist. when watching tv they got these dating shows now that have "bi"sexual people, (tila tiqula's a shot at love, Next)and they actually put this on tv for people, let alone children to watch, and here we have people asking why the younger generation is so "different" or "in most need of help" from other generations and they cant see how they polute** the minds of the generation, well the whole problem is allowing garbage like this on public tv. What we reep is what we so, in all cases, i am sorry for the comment i said and i appologise if i offended anyone by saying it. Jimbo
Message edited by author 2007-11-01 18:25:12. |
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11/01/2007 06:31:56 PM · #18 |
/me thinks people are rarely as offended as they pretend to be.
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11/01/2007 06:33:28 PM · #19 |
Originally posted by fotomann_forever: /me thinks people are rarely as offended as they pretend to be. |
are you referring to me, or to Laurie. I can assure you both of us are far more offended that we have let on, not less. |
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11/01/2007 06:40:41 PM · #20 |
Guys, this perv was not a school boy or a college kid doing adolescent antics. He's a grown up who used his position to sureptiously take pics of the crotch of someone who did not give him permission to. Would you be joking about it if it had been your wife, girlfriend, daughter, mother....???
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11/01/2007 06:46:27 PM · #21 |
So if I take a candid shot of a woman in the street with clothes on and her crotch is in the image am I a perv?
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11/01/2007 06:49:44 PM · #22 |
i'm a nature perv! :0 |
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11/01/2007 06:54:44 PM · #23 |
Originally posted by doctornick: Guys, this perv was not a school boy or a college kid doing adolescent antics. He's a grown up who used his position to sureptiously take pics of the crotch of someone who did not give him permission to. Would you be joking about it if it had been your wife, girlfriend, daughter, mother....??? |
I was just going to say this. Personally, the websites out there that are aimed at this type of behaviour and encourage it make me ill. They seem to give the impression that "It's Okay" and it is sooooo completely not. A complete invasion of privacy is what it is, but is unfortunately becoming commonplace it seems. :(
Makes me thankful that I don't have a daughter to ever have to worry about something like this ever happening to her. I can tell you, Someone Would Pay! Also makes my heart sink for the thousands of women that it has already happened to whether they are aware of it or not. |
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11/01/2007 07:01:38 PM · #24 |
Originally posted by rex: So if I take a candid shot of a woman in the street with clothes on and her crotch is in the image am I a perv? |
i flick across pbase random photos occasionally & forever surprised at the number of odd ball photographers out there .. yes there are hundreds if not thousands of cleavage / crotch /butt shots whole directories of them ..
not perverted .. just weird .. (IMO)
its like they will never get the guts to speak to these anonymous women but have gone hunting them all the same ..
the world tis a strange place |
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11/01/2007 07:12:07 PM · #25 |
Originally posted by rex: So if I take a candid shot of a woman in the street with clothes on and her crotch is in the image am I a perv? |
Well, the contrarian tone of the post suggests less than a reasonable stance, and if you took the picture for that purpose, Hell yes!
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