hi everyone thanks for the votes and comments they were really helpful, intially i intended to have the Jar in focus with my little cousins face in the background, but since the Jar was rather heavy and her hand started to hurt, i didnt want to push it ;).
As for being out of focus i suspect thats the sweets moving around plus the lighting was a little tough, my other cousin was holding my table lamp from the left side lol !
Ha ha! That was me when I was a kid! Did you try any shots with the focus on the jar instead? I think that would have turned out cool as well. Good luck!