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Nikon AF-S Nikkor 70-200mm f/2.8G ED VR II

12/24/2007 01:01:20 PM · #130

Originally posted by colorcarnival:

Originally posted by JuliBoc:

Originally posted by patio127:
.... - can anyone advise me on what flash unit to get for my Rebel (nothing fancy- I'm a sucker after all).
THANX

Check out this Gary Fong Puffer diffuser. I can't recommend it, because I haven't tried it yet. But for $20, I thought it was worth a try, and I have ordered it. My thought is that if it works well, I might be able to stall off the Canon 430 purchase for a while.

Julianne - I bought one because I was in "impulse buy" mode one day. I think that it does do a good job of diffusing flash in a close-up portrait mode. And I have not tried it outdoors yet. BUT if you are doing a group portrait in a low-light setting, you will see where the light comes over the diffuser (i.e. in your pic you will see the line between diffused and brighter white). Of course, it coule be that i am an idiot and am not using it properly :)

As I said before, I haven't got mine yet, but its height is supposed to be adjustable. There are some holes in the back to attach the frame. Maybe you have that set too low.

basssman7

Nikon D500

12/24/2007 01:38:05 PM · #131

Well my friends, it is over. :(

Siron is roaming endless fields of catnip and chasing butterflies. That is what I told her when I held onto her while she was put to sleep. :( [thumb]607488[/thumb]

The meds were not working, and the Dr. is pretty sure she did have a cancer tumor on her liver. She did not enjoy her last few days as she was very listless and pretty much layed around. I could not make her eat or drink no matter what I tried. Yesterday I boiled a chicken breast and ripped it up into strips for her. All she did was lick them a little bit. So then I used a shringe to shoot some broth into her, but she still did not bounce back. It was like she had given up and was waiting for the end.

So I put my selfish needs to have her around behind me and did what was best for her. I held her and told her about the catnip and butterflies, and then kept talking to her and telling her she was not alone while they gave her the needles. It is a sad, sad day. She was my best friend for the last 7 years. There is no justice in the world, she did not ever hurt anyone and did not deserve this.

I really want to thank everyone here from TS for their support during this time. It means a lot to me. Especially Pat (patio127), Michelle (colorcarnival), & Susan (snaffles) who have been sending me emails of support as well as sharing their own experiences with this.

I know it is small potatoes compared to other human tragedies that others here are dealing with, but it is tough for me. I was never a big Christmas person to begin with, and this certainly will not help.

Enjoy your Christmas with your family, friends, and of course your pets. (don't take any of those 3 for granted)

Ernie

BrianR

12/24/2007 01:57:57 PM · #132

Sorry to hear about your loss

basssman7from every loss a new life is born, I am sure Siron is having fun with the butterflies.

Message edited by author 2007-12-24 13:58:15.

Melethia

Canon EOS-80D

Nikon AF-S Nikkor 70-200mm f/2.8G ED VR II

12/24/2007 02:01:24 PM · #133

Ernie, I am so sorry. Sadly, I've been there, and I still miss all of them dearly. The only consolation is that the time together was time enjoyed and time to be remembered. My heart goes out to you. I know it sounds callous, but the best thing to do is find a new friend. I went to the shelter in tears after the last of my first "family" had to be put down, and found Emma, who opened her eyes and meowed as I walked by her cage. When the shelter worker took her out for me to see her, she licked my chin and purred. So somewhere out there is another gentle furry soul who's waiting for a home. Siron will never be replaced - cannot be - but there's room in your heart for another.

basssman7

Nikon D500

12/24/2007 02:05:17 PM · #134

Thanks everyone. I have started a thread where everyone can post pictures of their deceased pet friends. Feel free to post on it, as a tribute to your continued love for your deceased pet friends.

12/24/2007 02:08:02 PM · #135

Originally posted by BAMartin:

I guess it snuck up on me, but my daughter is growing up! She attended a friends Bat Mitzvah this weekend looking like this. Sigh, its going to be a scary ride to 18.

How lovely she looks! So she must be about 13 now, if she's attending Bat Mitzvahs. The "fun" is beginning.

12/24/2007 02:16:03 PM · #136

Originally posted by basssman7:

Thanks everyone. I have started a thread where everyone can post pictures of their deceased pet friends. Feel free to post on it, as a tribute to your continued love for your deceased pet friends.

Condolences, Ernie. I know what you need for Christmas. Hope Santa leaves you a new little kitty. I know the new one can never replace the old friend, but will become a new friend and help a lot with the loneliness.

That's a nice thread you started.

BrianR

12/24/2007 02:16:24 PM · #137

Almost missed the Oasis, but like the new house

these people that keep moving

and to every one

BrianR

Nikon AF-S Nikkor 50mm f/1.4G

12/24/2007 02:21:41 PM · #138

Originally posted by BAMartin:

I guess it snuck up on me, but my daughter is growing up! She attended a friends Bat Mitzvah this weekend looking like this. Sigh, its going to be a scary ride to 18.

It's a habit of parents we seem to wear blinkers around our own children and then WHAM where did you come from, enjoy the run up to 18.

left an e out of seem.

Message edited by author 2007-12-24 14:22:51.

kashi

Nikon D60

12/24/2007 03:24:21 PM · #139

Oh Ernie - I'm so sorry about Siron :(

Bear_Music

Samsung Galaxy S24 Ultra

Sony 24-70mm F4 Vario-Tessar T* FE OSS

12/24/2007 03:25:51 PM · #140

I'm sorry you had to lose Siron that way, Ernie. I know you'll miss the little furball dreadfully.

R.

JerseyGenie

Canon EOS-400D Rebel XTi

Canon EF-S 18-55mm f/3.5-5.6

12/24/2007 03:25:53 PM · #141

Ernie, wishing you a peaceful holiday. My thoughts are with you.

krnodil

Canon EF 100mm f/2.8L Macro IS USM

12/24/2007 04:39:23 PM · #142

My condolences, Ernie. Give yourself some time to grieve, and then, as others have recommended, get thee out to a shelter and give some other lucky puss a new home. From experience, I can say it's one of the best ways to honor the memory of one you have lost.

raish

Olympus C-2500L

Nikon AF Nikkor 50mm f/1.4D

12/24/2007 05:49:54 PM · #143

Condolences, Ernie. Not too much time went by before we made up for this fella's absence:

Just remember (although I am ignorant of any details in your case, of course), you did the right thing. Sometimes it's easier to hang on too long than it is to make the right decision.

Take care.

posthumous

Canon EOS-40D

Canon EF 50mm f/1.8 II

12/24/2007 06:01:03 PM · #144

helloooo team suck. I'm away on vacation and can't get online much. I read this whooooole thread and have good thoughts for everyone.

Ernie, my condolences. I thought I was going to lose my dog about a year ago and was completely devastated just by the thought of it.

hywind, glad to see you around. How you doing?

Bear and raish, I think I can take you guys on. Two poets in the same bag can only be trouble.

And speaking of Deb as muse, here is a poem that I might never have written if I weren't writing in her journal while on vacation:

From the Cocoon of Therapy

emerges a dark wet being,
brilliant colors
sagging from its shoulders. Long feelers
protrude from its head, precluding
the use of its fingers and palms,
which are busy holding on
to primitive places,
cornered but not sharp,
with cross windows and closed doors
missing an eye. It huddles in hope
that a yellow sun with yellow lines
poking out will one day dry
its warm sofa wings.

raish

Olympus C-2500L

Nikon AF Nikkor 50mm f/1.4D

12/24/2007 06:16:28 PM · #145

Originally posted by posthumous:

Bear and raish, I think I can take you guys on. Two poets in the same bag can only be trouble.

You have a point there, but we old horses don't like to pull in opposite directions.

Ernie:

A Border Collie

I had a dog, but then I went away
to see the world and travel light
and stretch horizons, or whatever might
be my excuse, so Megan had to stay
behind. We all grow older and one day
my mother said I had to do the right
thing: give the dog one last walk to the vet
to be put down, as we so glibly say.

Megâ��s incontinence almost cleared up -
I stayed a week and gave her exercise.
Her life was something like it was before,
except that wasn't any new-born pup
I cradled, held by her fading eyes.
I had a dog. I'll not have any more.

griz210

Nikon D300s

Nikon AF-S DX NIKKOR 18-200mm f/3.5-5.6G ED VR II

12/24/2007 06:45:45 PM · #146

Ernie,
sorry for your loss, I think you did the right thing i know it is tough we had to do the same thing with our Lab las April and it is rough.But i think it is best for them to not suffer just so we can have them a few more days. I agree with everyone get another as soon as you can, we did and it helped plus we know we saved another dog from being put down.

NikonJeb

Nikon D850

Nikon AF-S Nikkor 28-300mm f3.5-5.6G ED VR

12/24/2007 08:16:05 PM · #147

These gentle friends we hold in our hearts
Cause pain, yet joy as they depart.
They always know when to be around,
To comfort and be with us when weâ��re down.
They give us unconditional love
Itâ��s plain theyâ��re sent to us from above.
Theyâ��re the finest kind of real friends,
They show love and understanding that never ends.
Though each loss causes us pain,
The next friend teaches usâ�¦..to love again

kashi

Nikon D60

Nikon AF-S Nikkor 50mm f/1.4G

12/24/2007 09:48:51 PM · #148

I seldom write anymore - but used to quite often. I find my old writings to be very 'teen angst' for the most part, and seldom share.

This one though, is one I have always enjoyed - I wrote it when I was ~17

THE BLUE ROSE

The blue rose
So rare,
And so unique.
It inspires awe
In those who find it,
And wonder
In those who seek it.
But a blue rose
Is fragile and tender
And must be treated
With love and respect
If so, it will grow stronger,
And may bloom forever.
But if neglected
Or taken for granted
It will wilt and die.
Even though the rose
May bloom again
It will never be the same
Never so genuine,
And never so special,
As the first
I've been lucky
For Iâ��ve already found,
My own blue rose -
Your friendship.