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06/20/2007 11:32:22 PM · #26 |
Originally posted by frisca: Anita I really think you need to talk to your mom and a counsellor about all this. Especially your mom. She has hugs for you that you will find give you immeasureable strength.
Also -- don't go to wherever that fuck is. He only wants to be friends. He doesn't love you. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. Did I mention that HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU? |
I'm really with Frisca on this, and I think all of us seem pretty united. I'd only like to add that from what you've said he's said, your relationship is already over. And that 'just friends' thing isn't viable, just for the reasons you've stated. That's okay, though, one should have a good idea who they are and what they're all about before they commit such things to someone else.
I say throw a fantastic pity party (most people use that sarcastically, but I think it's quite therapeutic), get your mom and your friends in on it, maybe destroy some cheezy photographs. Then get up and go discover the rest of you life. It's not going to be easy and it's not supposed to be, but that doesn't mean you can't get through this.
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06/23/2007 10:32:16 PM · #27 |
after all of this she cancelled her account ... go figure!?! |
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06/23/2007 10:43:55 PM · #28 |
Who said we should never give advise because those who need it would in any case not heed it, and well, those who don't nedd it simply do not need it? |
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06/23/2007 11:35:51 PM · #29 |
I know what you need. Paragraph breaks.
Use them and your rant will be heard better.
Oh, and dump him like a sack of potatos. |
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06/24/2007 04:26:04 PM · #30 |
Originally posted by Gibun: Who said we should never give advise because those who need it would in any case not heed it, and well, those who don't nedd it simply do not need it? |
Ah, but there are exceptions to every rule and sharing opinions, advice, and experience cost us nothing.
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06/24/2007 04:39:52 PM · #31 |
No one was telling her what she wanted to hear.
I think her mind was made up to stay with him before the first post, and she just wanted reinforcement.
Her boyfriend probably told her to close her account after she told him about all the "dump him" posts.
Love? Don't think so. : P
Message edited by author 2007-06-24 16:40:40.
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