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11/27/2007 07:06:56 PM · #101 |
So my wife is pretty liberal plus she's really hot (she's the nude blonde in my portfolio). We were in Miami on November 2nd and around midnight we decided to hit a strip club in South Beach. This is not something we've done before just a spur of the moment thing. We had a blast. We got lap dances together all night and spent a lot of time tipping and getting to know a bunch of the dancers. The girls seemed to really like my wife. We didn't leave until 6:00 am.
She had so much fun she wants to check out some local strip clubs. Somehow I think DC won't be the same as South Beach.
But we always have fun whenever naked girls are around! |
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11/27/2007 07:10:16 PM · #102 |
Ahh, rippers. Me and my fiance are fine with it, either together or on our own.
In fact, I saw a stripper light her nipples on fire on friday night. Wow! |
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11/27/2007 07:25:03 PM · #103 |
Originally posted by seenosun:
So my wife is pretty liberal plus she's really hot (she's the nude blonde in my portfolio). We were in Miami on November 2nd and around midnight we decided to hit a strip club in South Beach. This is not something we've done before just a spur of the moment thing. We had a blast. We got lap dances together all night and spent a lot of time tipping and getting to know a bunch of the dancers. The girls seemed to really like my wife. We didn't leave until 6:00 am.
She had so much fun she wants to check out some local strip clubs. Somehow I think DC won't be the same as South Beach.
But we always have fun whenever naked girls are around! |
Camelot is not bad at all! (i guess its still around...on Mst and 17-18) |
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11/27/2007 07:27:31 PM · #104 |
Originally posted by JRalston:
Originally posted by Gunnsi:
How does it feel like when your spouse is watching another and maybe longing for another? What does it make you? The second best of course!
Have a nice day :-) |
My 2 cents on that. My husband and I are faithful and commited to each other. I think it is 100% natural to be attracted to others. Now, a woman has to be lying if she doesn't think James Denton from Desperate Housewives is a hottie ;o) There are lots of people out there that would be perfectly do-able if I was not married. Looking is one thing, but getting involved with someone else is a whole 'nother ball game. I, personally, would rather my spouse straight up tell me he thinks someone is hot than to deny it to my face. Just because your spouse is attracted to another person, does not mean they want to have an affair. |
Looking is one thing, finding others attractive is natural - however going to a strip club where one of you is spending hard earned money on woman whos JOB is to get you to act on those impulses is a test that may not be worth the entertainment. TRUST ME
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11/27/2007 07:44:15 PM · #105 |
Originally posted by kolasi:
Originally posted by seenosun:
So my wife is pretty liberal plus she's really hot (she's the nude blonde in my portfolio). We were in Miami on November 2nd and around midnight we decided to hit a strip club in South Beach. This is not something we've done before just a spur of the moment thing. We had a blast. We got lap dances together all night and spent a lot of time tipping and getting to know a bunch of the dancers. The girls seemed to really like my wife. We didn't leave until 6:00 am.
She had so much fun she wants to check out some local strip clubs. Somehow I think DC won't be the same as South Beach.
But we always have fun whenever naked girls are around! |
Camelot is not bad at all! (i guess its still around...on Mst and 17-18) |
Thanks we'll check it out. Do they do lap dances there? I had heard DC has some really tight rules about touching the dancers. |
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11/27/2007 09:10:24 PM · #106 |
Originally posted by seenosun:
She had so much fun she wants to check out some local strip clubs. Somehow I think DC won't be the same as South Beach. |
Some of the DC clubs are just nasty. The one I liked wasn't actually in DC, but just south of Andrews AFB (I was stationed there). I forget the name and exact location though. It was only topless, and no lapdances, but the place had class compared to some of the DC places. |
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11/27/2007 09:32:43 PM · #107 |
| Camelot has really beautiful dancers, but im pretty sure its no touch. They have a vip room, but im not sure what thats like |
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11/27/2007 09:53:28 PM · #108 |
Originally posted by Gunnsi:
Thinking outloud:
If you are engaged or married I don't see the point. What is it you want to see when you go to a strip club? Is it lust or just beauty.
It is like when you are on a diet and constantly look at all the chocolates.
I think that there is nothing good that can come out of a visit to a strip club. It is not a matter of trust, it is a matter of staying a way from temptations.
Don't say in your prayers "Lead us not into temptations" and go to a place like that where you get all worked up!
Going there with your love one is maybe ok, but not alone.
How does it feel like when your spouse is watching another and maybe longing for another? What does it make you? The second best of course!
Have a nice day :-) |
your balls called... they said you left them in your last post |
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11/27/2007 10:02:45 PM · #109 |
Regardless the cause of excitement, it is a given that humans are going to find SOMEone arousing in life, other than their spouse. Given such inevitability, would you rather (A) have a level of trust with your spouse that allows the open & honest discussion of those feelings, or (B) be so scared of your own thoughts OR their reactions that you hide such things? Trust, honesty, and communication are imperative in a successful relationship.
Regarding the adult entertainment industry, I think there are good and bad people in ALL walks of life. My wife & I share many of the same beliefs regarding this issue, and I'm confident that if one of us wanted to try / do / go with an idea, we would have each other's trust and support. THAT is more important than any sense of 'letting' the other do anything, be it a strip club or a major purchase or choosing what to eat for dinner.
Doc, while I respect your opinion, I'm really curious as to your criteria. 'We' just had our 18th wedding anniversary *and we're only 36*, have indulged in a few adult libations along the way ((specifics are no one's business...), and are more in love than ever. Your concerns are valid, but no one rule in life fits every situation. Suffice it to say that learning to be 100% honest with one's spouse is quite liberating, and you will gain an appreciation you could not possibly comprehend otherwise. (obviously the word 'you' doesn't apply solely to Doc, but everyone in general)
A refreshing thread, which has remained MUCH more civil than I imagined!
(um, did the OP's old man ever make it to the titty bar, or not?!?!)
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11/27/2007 10:03:46 PM · #110 |
Its like a friend of mine in a relationship who said he didnt want to go to this bar cause he was afraid he might hook up with someone.
I told him that if whats holding him back from screwing up his relationship is the fact that he doesnt go to places with available women, then he has a pretty serious problem with his relationship |
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11/28/2007 01:19:50 AM · #111 |
Originally posted by travis_cooper:
Originally posted by Spazmo99:
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I have my own money, my wife has hers and together, we have ours. All three are separate accounts.
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I'm sorry. Probably the biggest cause of divorce is financial problems and this is one of the root causes, spouses need to work together on their finances not working alone. |
We do work together on finances. Our joint needs are met first, but, we both have very different styles of managing money and we each have a need for money we can feel free to save or spend as we please.
If your marriage works differently, then great, good for you. I'd say it's quite arrogant to assume that because another couple works out their finances differently than you they are on the road to ruin.
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11/28/2007 01:54:58 AM · #112 |
Originally posted by travis_cooper:
Sorry, I just have to stand up for morality here, and I don't care what you say to me, I know I will never cheat on my wife, because I won't take the first step by looking. |
Your definition of morality isn't universal, and it's, well, presumptuous to assume it is.
My wife and I both believe "we're married, not dead" when it comes to finding other people attractive. We see nothing wrong in telling each other, either. Looking doesn't do any harm to our relationship (14 years and going strong). Maybe your morals don't allow for looking, but that's not true for everyone.
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11/28/2007 02:25:48 AM · #113 |
| I plan on marrying someone who thinks similar to me in this regard. I plan on marrying a man that does not go to strip clubs. That's it. |
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11/28/2007 10:05:24 AM · #114 |
Originally posted by DrAchoo:
Lets just put the rubber to the road.
Of the people participating on this thread, how many fit the following:
1) Married once
2) For at least 10 years
3) Frequent stip clubs at least once a year
4) With your wife's permission
I'll pay attention to anybody who fits this bill... |
1. Once and only once
2. Going to be our 14th (!!!) anniversay on Feb 12, 2008.
3. Don't quite fit this one but...
4. would never think of not giving the hubby 'permission'
While we don't frequent strip clubs, I would have no problem with the hubby going with his friends. Just to repeat what others have said, we're married, not dead. We both notice others that are attractive - it would simply be lying if we said we didn't. I know that 14 years and 2 children later, I don't have the same shape I used to but I know that he finds me sexy! ;-)
On the issue of granting 'permission' - it just seems so disrespectful! It really brings to mind a couple that we are friends with. They have been together for a few years (3 or 4 now I think) but are on the brink of separation because of 'permission' issues.
In my opinion, the strongest relationships are based on trust and respect. If either is missing, I really don't think a relationship can truly develop into something solid and lasting. |
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11/28/2007 07:02:19 PM · #115 |
Originally posted by DrAchoo:
Lets just put the rubber to the road.
Of the people participating on this thread, how many fit the following:
1) Married once
2) For at least 10 years
3) Frequent stip clubs at least once a year
4) With your wife's permission
I'll pay attention to anybody who fits this bill... |
BTW
1) First for both
2) 17 years married (23 together)
3) Strip Clubs, SM Clubs, Drag Clubs ... whatever! (PS.. we are not swingers)
4) Don't need permission but its more fun when she goes these places with me AND she's always the prettiest girl in the room! |
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10/13/2008 10:24:50 PM · #116 |
The Art of Peter Lavetti
Message edited by author 2011-03-25 23:26:51. |
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10/13/2008 10:35:31 PM · #117 |
| Sounds like Pete needs to get laid! |
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10/13/2008 10:37:11 PM · #118 |
| Sounds like something he's passionate about, since it appears he registered so he could resurrect the old thread. :) |
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10/13/2008 11:47:09 PM · #119 |
| Looks like the Ken Rockwell thread is not the only one to attract onlookers. |
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10/13/2008 11:56:58 PM · #120 |
Originally posted by Art Roflmao:
Looks like the Ken Rockwell thread is not the only one to attract onlookers. |
That was my first thought too... :) |
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10/14/2008 12:13:43 AM · #121 |
Lol, just read the entire thread, quite entertaining.
By all means continue...
Evan |
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10/14/2008 01:16:23 AM · #122 |
Glad to see this back in discussion again. Last time I forgot to add that I love boobies!
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10/14/2008 02:22:19 AM · #123 |
| I'm perfectly happy with my wife and her "boobies" :) Don't need a club. |
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10/14/2008 04:10:39 AM · #124 |
Originally posted by Patrick_R:
I'm perfectly happy with my wife and her "boobies" :) |
Yeah, me too! :D
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10/14/2008 06:24:55 AM · #125 |
Originally posted by Mick:
Originally posted by Patrick_R:
I'm perfectly happy with my wife and her "boobies" :) |
Yeah, me too! :D |
BUT...what if the wifey likes boobies, too? How could I live with myself if I didn't watch her play with boobies from time to time? ;)
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