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04/15/2007 06:30:42 PM · #1
This is for the parents out there that have hired a babysitter to come to their house and watch their kids.

With all the weirdo's out there how do you (or I) find a good baby sitter???
04/15/2007 06:34:49 PM · #2
I used to use the police chief's daughter, he lived across the street.
04/15/2007 06:42:11 PM · #3
The teenage daughter of someone you know well.

Word-of-Mouth is a good way to find a babysitter, but some parents are loathe to give out the name of their best sitter because they want them to themselves.

04/15/2007 06:52:30 PM · #4
Well considering that everyone I know doesn't that is close to me like that has kids about the same age as mine if not younger. And family is out of the question because the nearest relative lives 500 miles away.
04/15/2007 06:56:07 PM · #5
Through the local high school and child care center. And there are agencies. But however you end up doing this, please make sure and screen carefully. Interview. ASk questions like, "What activities would you think appropriate for a x yr old?" More than once, the answers told me all I needed to know. Ask for references. Are the parents nearby? CPR trained? And there are often babysitting courses through a local organization, ie YMCA, high school, community college.

I always started with a new sitter for an hour or two, with me on the grounds, i.e., out of sight and earshot, but close enough to be be aware of interactions, how my kids reacted to the sitter, etc., and in case of a problem.

Good luck - be careful!

Edit to add - child development courses at the local community college or university may be a good source of sitters. You can post at the college or high school career center. I also sometimes asked about the sitter's grades in school (assuming she/he was a student. Also - younger siblings? If so, the potential sitter may have experience already.

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04/15/2007 07:01:13 PM · #6
Our rule is family only.......

04/15/2007 07:09:55 PM · #7
Originally posted by JeffDay:

Our rule is family only.......


yeah but I don't have family that can watch them. And maxaz1I think I will post something at the local school and see what I come up with, thanks I didn't even think about that.
04/15/2007 08:02:48 PM · #8
Originally posted by JeffDay:

Our rule is family only.......


Interesting rule, seeing as how a lot of abuse is perpetuated by family members.

To the OP, you just have to use your instincts, common sense, and make sure you interview and select someone that you are comfortable with. Good references, experience, and knowledge are things to look for.

Contrary to popular belief in the media.. There are far, FAR more really good people out there that take damn good care of kids, than there are "weirdos" as you put it.
04/15/2007 08:09:16 PM · #9
Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Well considering that everyone I know doesn't that is close to me like that has kids about the same age as mine if not younger.


Then work out trades. They watch your kids for a few hours one weekend, you watch theirs the next weekend. Sure, it can be mayhem for those doing the watching, but the rewards are there.
04/15/2007 10:16:46 PM · #10
Originally posted by Spazmo99:

Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Well considering that everyone I know doesn't that is close to me like that has kids about the same age as mine if not younger.


Then work out trades. They watch your kids for a few hours one weekend, you watch theirs the next weekend. Sure, it can be mayhem for those doing the watching, but the rewards are there.


I don't have any close friends like that but there are a few parents at my kid̢۪s school that would be perfect for something like that. I just wouldn't know how to approach them.
04/15/2007 11:23:56 PM · #11
Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Originally posted by Spazmo99:

Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Well considering that everyone I know doesn't that is close to me like that has kids about the same age as mine if not younger.


Then work out trades. They watch your kids for a few hours one weekend, you watch theirs the next weekend. Sure, it can be mayhem for those doing the watching, but the rewards are there.


I don't have any close friends like that but there are a few parents at my kid̢۪s school that would be perfect for something like that. I just wouldn't know how to approach them.


If the kids are friends, set up play dates. Offer to have their kids over after school. Then they owe you. Then try having the whole family over for dinner. They're probably looking for the same thing too.

04/15/2007 11:41:42 PM · #12
Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:



I don't have any close friends like that but there are a few parents at my kid̢۪s school that would be perfect for something like that. I just wouldn't know how to approach them.


Just call and ask... highly unlikely they would get offended :)

I have had parents that I know ask me to sit for them out of the blue... I have never said no :)
04/15/2007 11:45:28 PM · #13
Originally posted by Spazmo99:

Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Originally posted by Spazmo99:

Originally posted by Lowcivicman99:

Well considering that everyone I know doesn't that is close to me like that has kids about the same age as mine if not younger.


Then work out trades. They watch your kids for a few hours one weekend, you watch theirs the next weekend. Sure, it can be mayhem for those doing the watching, but the rewards are there.


I don't have any close friends like that but there are a few parents at my kid̢۪s school that would be perfect for something like that. I just wouldn't know how to approach them.


If the kids are friends, set up play dates. Offer to have their kids over after school. Then they owe you. Then try having the whole family over for dinner. They're probably looking for the same thing too.


They're probably wondering how to find a reliable, trustworthy sitter too. And they would more than likely be pleased that you would think of them.
04/15/2007 11:53:50 PM · #14
We have a service in the neighboring city called something like "grandma's for hire". I personally used them years ago when I was in the city for New Years and the kids were at the hotel. She was very professional. I would not leave my kids with just anyone.. so I would say use a service, go to a good Professional agency where all sitters are CPR trained, check their references, and personally pick your sitter out of their books or ask for their most requested sitter. I would go for an older lady, especially if you have calm kids who just need to eat and then hit the hay.. if you need a younger person to handle rowdy kids then I would interview like crazy, check references and then ask those people you call for any references they know and call them too. Area churches here put on Parents Night where you drop off your kids at a certain time and then pick them up 4-6 hours later, those can he helpful. Kids Are Precious and its our DUTY to protect them. Good Luck.
04/16/2007 12:31:06 AM · #15
Our local hospital has a Red Cross first aid/baby sitters course. After the kids have passed the class and with their parents permission their names are available on a sitters list. It's nice to know your sitter would know what to do in case of an emergency. We've been lucky that most of our neighborhood kids have taken the class so I've never had to call for the list but when we were looking for sitters it was nice to know it was there if we needed it.

04/16/2007 01:36:39 AM · #16
Are you near a college campus? I know that my daughter got a very nice part time job in her freshman and sophmore year by someone that was a former sorority member and asked at the sorority house if anyone was interested. Word of mouth is the best way, I think.
04/16/2007 02:02:08 AM · #17
You could try speaking to staff at the high-school, where they might pass on your name/number to students that they would recommend. My daughter got a few jobs this way.
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