Why do employers need to be so by the bloody book!

03/25/2007 03:33:07 AM · #26

Hmmm... I only know half of my co-workers' last names, and two of them I've known for 15 years...

I can fully understand the boss not giving out her number, and if noisemaker had stopped to think I'm sure he wouldn't have even asked, but to ask that his number be passed on, for her to use or not, as she chose, isn't, imo, at all "stalkerly".
Still, it's up to his boss if he wants to forward the message or not.

Personally, I'd be very appreciative if a co-worker cared enough to check on me if he/she felt something was wrong that he/she could possibly help with.

I suspect he's not particularly angry with the boss specifically, but frustrated and feeling helpless with the whole situation.
And no, caring is not a bad thing!

eta; moving our location discussion from the other thread to this, since this is your thread and I don't wanna hijack Art's :D

We're just up the road from Western Food and St. Vincent's, so can almost see your place from here... mwahahaha....
Ack! Now I'm giving a stalker info! ;)

Message edited by author 2007-03-25 03:44:02.

03/25/2007 03:56:28 AM · #27

Originally posted by BeeCee:

are you on or by Peatt Rd.? the firehall?

03/25/2007 03:58:05 AM · #28

Next over, couple blocks behind the firehall.

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03/25/2007 04:10:07 AM · #29

Originally posted by BeeCee:

Next over, couple blocks behind the firehall.

thats crazy you live pretty close, i actually live up on the mountain in all hte new housing they built up there. its a small world!(pun intended, the world is the biggest thing we've ever physically seen!)

Art Roflmao

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03/25/2007 04:16:28 AM · #30

Originally posted by noisemaker:

Originally posted by BeeCee:
Next over, couple blocks behind the firehall.

thats crazy you live pretty close, i actually live up on the mountain in all hte new housing they built up there. its a small world!(pun intended, the world is the biggest thing we've ever physically seen!)

Idiot!! BeeCee is that head shrinking lady I was warning you about! ;-)

03/25/2007 04:27:52 AM · #31

Originally posted by Art Roflmao:

Originally posted by noisemaker:

Originally posted by BeeCee:
Next over, couple blocks behind the firehall.

thats crazy you live pretty close, i actually live up on the mountain in all hte new housing they built up there. its a small world!(pun intended, the world is the biggest thing we've ever physically seen!)

Idiot!! BeeCee is that head shrinking lady I was warning you about! ;-)

NOOOOOOO haha
theres like 100 new houses though! she'll never know which is miiine

muahahahahahaha

03/25/2007 06:24:35 AM · #32

Originally posted by Art Roflmao:

Dammit Art, I TOLD you the cheque was in the mail!
.......sheesh....can't trust anyone to keep their mouth shut... may hafta sew it shut now...

And noisemaker, do NOT believe a word Art says! 0-:)

Message edited by author 2007-03-25 06:25:57.

03/25/2007 06:35:45 AM · #33

Originally posted by BeeCee:

Originally posted by Art Roflmao:

Originally posted by noisemaker:

Originally posted by BeeCee:
Next over, couple blocks behind the firehall.

thats crazy you live pretty close, i actually live up on the mountain in all hte new housing they built up there. its a small world!(pun intended, the world is the biggest thing we've ever physically seen!)

Idiot!! BeeCee is that head shrinking lady I was warning you about! ;-)

Dammit Art, I TOLD you the cheque was in the mail!
.......sheesh....can't trust anyone to keep their mouth shut... may hafta sew it shut now...

And noisemaker, do NOT believe a word Art says! 0-:)

but hes so...believable

Nikon AF Nikkor 50mm f/1.8D

03/25/2007 06:48:08 AM · #34

Noooo, you must believe meeeeeee!!

(and get to bed, boy, it's going to be light out soon! :P )

David.C

03/25/2007 02:58:14 PM · #35

Originally posted by noisemaker:

... i kinda thought it was a good thing to care about other people....

It is -- but it is definitely not good to get emotionally wrapped up in the problems of others. You can't fix the problem (it's not yours), so getting emotionally wrapped up in it will just frustrate you with not being able to do anything about it.

Unless you feel she is in danger or a danger to herself and others, it will wait until she comes back to work. But from what you said, you took the edge off of it before she left, so that's not likely.

David